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Unveiled Dialogues: Unique Insights from Darek Kraft, Only Matt and Nicholas Bardem
The adult entertainment industry is often misunderstood, but the stories of its performers reveal a complex world of passion, challenges, and personal growth. In this exclusive interview, we sit down with three gay porn actors—Darek Kraft, Only Matt, and Nicholas Bardem—to discuss their journeys, experiences, and perspectives on the industry.
Nicholas Bardem: A Veteran’s Return
Nicholas Bardem, originally from Mexico and now based in Spain, has a unique story. He began his career in gay porn in 2001 but took a 20-year hiatus before returning in 2021. During his career, Nicholas has earned four prestigious awards, including two Grabby Awards for Best Performer. Outside of porn, he works in digital marketing, balancing his professional life with his adult film career. When asked about his sexual fantasies, Nicholas shared his desire to have sex on a balcony while being watched by others—a thrilling exhibitionist fantasy. In his free time, Nicholas enjoys exploring Spain’s vibrant culture and spending time with friends, emphasizing the importance of balance in his life.
Only Matt: A Newcomer’s Journey
Hailing from Montreal, Canada, Only Matt entered the gay porn industry in 2023, making it his full-time job. His career began when a chance encounter with someone in the industry led to an introduction to a producer. Matt’s first shoot was for Frankfurt Sex Stories in Germany, where he starred in Leather Sessions Vol. 4, a fetish threesome scene set in a playroom. Reflecting on that experience, Matt recalled, “It was a very long day and pretty exhausting.” He highlighted the challenges of the job, noting, “It’s not just having sex—it’s following a script, and it’s hard work to keep going for so long.”
Despite the demands, Matt finds the camaraderie among actors inspiring, describing the industry as “a big family” where performers look out for each other. Less experienced with fetish practices, Matt expressed curiosity about exploring kinkier scenes in the future. In his downtime, he enjoys outdoor activities and staying active, a nod to his background in healthcare before entering porn.
Darek Kraft: A Fetish Enthusiast
Darek Kraft, originally from Spain and now living in Hamburg, Germany, started his porn career in 2020 after a friend in the industry introduced him to the business. Working in a fetish store in Hamburg, Darek’s passion for kink naturally aligns with his career. He’s particularly fascinated by “sounding”—the practice of inserting small rods or fluids into the urethra—and hopes to explore it further on camera or in private. When not filming, Darek enjoys working out and indulging in his love for fetish fashion and culture.
Challenges and Reflections
All three actors agreed that maintaining a relationship while working in adult entertainment is incredibly difficult, if not nearly impossible, due to the industry’s demands and societal stigma. They also discussed their hobbies outside of work, emphasizing the importance of hobbies and downtime to maintain balance.
Finally, the trio addressed serious issues within the adult industry, including persistent discrimination and homophobia. They called for unity within the gay community to combat these challenges, advocating for greater acceptance and understanding.
Through their stories, Darek, Matt, and Nicholas offer a glimpse into the realities of the gay porn industry—a world of hard work, creativity, and resilience in the face of adversity.
“EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW” | DAREK KRAFT, NICHOLAS BARDEM, ONLY MATT
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